Showing posts with label imperfect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label imperfect. Show all posts

Thursday, September 14, 2017

Our Perception on Perfection

Friends, it has been sooooo long!!!
life seems like it is just f l y i n g right on by... it seems only yesterday my dear sweetheart and I got married for time and all eternity -- but it's been over a month!
After getting married we moved to Logan so both of us could continue our education at USU, I was SO excited to move to a bigger city, and experience life a bit differently...I was excited to learn and grow! (don't get me wrong, I LOVE Sanpete, and small towns just make my heart HAPPY and my soul SMILE... but for me it was time to move and experience something outside of my little bubble)
OH MY... 
it has been a lot harder than I thought it would be. Let me tell ya, it's not all roses and perfectness. (life was never like that before, so why did I think that it might get that way now?)
perception of perfeciton
The human perception on perfection is quite interesting...and to me it's kind of funny.
I'm taking an Art History class this semester and after a discussion on the human form in art I was fascinated by just how much we reach for the unattainable. As humans we have something in us that just has a NEED to create, through music, literature, dancing, and through art. Humans have been creating art f o r e v e r .
I never truly realized it but the human form dominates our lives so completely, it makes a HUGE difference in our day - to - day lives, but something interesting
we are NOT surrounded by r e a l i s t i c images of the human form. 
Humans are hardwired in the brain to exaggerate and idealize the human figure; our search for "perfection" comes from culture, or environment, family, lifestyle, religion, beliefs, and many other things!
As humans there is something within us that has a desire to learn, to grow, and become something greater than we were before, and this is a beautiful thing. Artists create a more "perfect" version, poets create a more Utopian world, and even athletes create a more defined image of their own bodies and abilities. It is our human nature to become and create, but do we take this to the extreme? Do we push and push so much that we end up telling ourselves lies? 
I know that I have been guilty.
How many people do you know that are perfect?
How many incredible stories of inspiring people had the perfect figure, the easiest life, were the smartest, or the most perfect family life?
We tend to study the outcasts, drop-out students, orphans, and the "ugly ducklings" of life.
Like, Einstein, Corrie Ten Boom, Mother Teresa, Gandhi, Helen Keller, and Jesus Christ.
Those are the stories that inspire & bring HOPE! 
"Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are." -Brene Brown
So much of my life has been waiting to be good enough, practicing and hoping that someday I would be able to show my random interests like, ballet, dutch, painting, drawing, etc. All I want is to make people HAPPY, and to put a SMILE on their faces!!! I keep on telling myself to wait til I can do this...wait til I'm better at that... but I'm learning that the  p r o c e s s  is ALWAYS more b e a u t i f u l  than the results.
People don't only want to see the masterpiece, the end result; empathy and understanding comes from seeing the journey and the progress made all along the way. 
Being authentic is putting aside that "perfect" perception and that one "perfect" moment to shine and share the CrAzY self that you are! (because we are ALL truly crazy, and THAT is truly l o v e l y!) 
It is being brave enough to share you, despite your flaws, imperfections, mistakes...that is how we as humans CONNECT with each other along this journey through the human experience!
As we are more authentic we will start to see those around us as the Lord sees them, and our focus will be less internally and will become more of an outward focus.
How can you choose to be Authentic?
How can you share your LIGHT with another person today?

“The most miserable people I know are those who are obsessed with themselves; the happiest people I know are those who lose themselves in the service of others.” From #PresHinckley’s http://pinterest.com/pin/24066179228827332 inspiring message http://lds.org/ensign/1982/08/whosoever-will-save-his-life Learn more http://lds.org/youth/for-the-strength-of-youth/service #Giving #Christlike #Service #Happiness ... Enjoy more from Gordon B. Hinckley http://facebook.com/242634619088155 #ShareGoodness
Random Fun Fact: Having an outward focus (service oriented) reduces stress.
Stress is the inward focus of all that WE have to get done...focusing on others loads WILL lighten our load...and WILL put a smile on your face!
Keep being YOU!
You are powerful beyond comprehension; YOU are a child of God!

Friday, June 30, 2017

Humility is the KEY to inspiration!

You know that moment when you realize that people are imperfect?
CrAzY moment of clarity, right?!?!
...that moment when you realize that you are imperfect...
is hard.
The thing that has amazes me is the fact that I have been imperfect for a loooonnng time, and I'm going to continue to be imperfect for a looonnnggg time... it's frustrating because most the time we just accept the fact that we have flaws, bad days...bad weeks, but it is in those moments when we SEE our mistakes and shortcomings that it is hard!
Those days when we are chastened...we SEE and are humbled. 
b e a u t i f u l  moments!
I'm not going to lie, those moments are hard! 
But it is those moments that we see just how much the Lord truly loves us. 
IT'S TRUE! If He did not love you then He wouldn't take the time to give you correction, guidance, moments of clarity, humbling opportunities; they just wouldn't happen!
So, being imperfect is just proof that Heavenly Father really does love His children!
When we understand that we are very imperfect it allows us to recognize the fact that everyone is very imperfect too. 
 As soon as this understanding takes place we then can grow in kindness, understanding, forgiveness, love, charity, etc. This quote by Jeffery R. Holland fits perfectly!
Our Heavenly Father is so kind and loving...and so should we. 
LOVE that so much!
My dear, sweet fiance explained to me yesterday that when we hit a low miracles could potentially happen. 
Humbling moments allow us to DO something about our imperfect selves!
We are blessed with agency.
We have the ability to change...to try a little hard to BE a little better! 
That is a MIRACLE!
The lows in our day-to-day lives allow us to SEE the hand of the Lord more, and it allows us to learn to lean on Him; as soon as we lean on the Lord with ALL our heart, might, mind, and strength ... that is when miracles can happen!
...or....that is when we will be able to SEE miracles.
miracles are ALL around us, we just have to OPEN our eyes and hearts to really be able to SEE them sometimes!!!
so...
Humility is the key to inspiration!!!

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( just had to throw in a quote from The Best Two Years )

To those who read this post:
If you are going through a hard time. If you're trying so hard just to become, but you feel like you're not going anywhere just know that you are NOT alone.
So many times we think that we have to embark on this journey alone; we forget that if that were the case then we would have been put here on this earth  a l o n e .  
\But we are here with SO many other people!!!
&
 we have someone who knows, and understands you PERFECTLY!
We have a Savior, Jesus Christ. The only person who knows EXACTLY how you feel, what you're going through, and He has the peace to be able to calm your troubled heart.
Allow Him to be your best friend... He will ALWAYS be there for you.
I know.
Because He has been there for me.
So, my friends, it most certainly IS ok to be imperfect!
But don't dwell on it, understand it and move on.
Go lift another person, visit someone who is lonely, compliment someone, make someone smile... the list could go on...
Just know that the road is ALWAYS uphill, and the journey is NOT easy, but it is worth it!!!
Look upward,
Reach outward,
&
NEVER lose your SMILE!!!
You NEVER know who's life you could bless!!!
Totziens to ya!!! ;)